Getting your partner to accept sex dolls can be a genuine problem because you never know how someone will react to something until it happens.
But remember that whatever it is, we can all agree that being upfront and honest is the best way to go.
Nobody likes to be deceived and lied to, especially by their romantic partner, so no matter how difficult and awkward the conversation may be, you must own up and have it done because everyone prefers to know the truth over a lie.
Now, your partner might freak out in the beginning and they might tell you that they don’t want to be a part of anything that involves a sex doll, but you must try your best to explain your needs.
You need to give your partner a reasonable explanation as to why you need a sex doll and make sure you are elaborating while giving your explanation, instead of just giving something that may sound like an excuse.
If you own a sex doll because you are having troubles with your focus, performance, or stamina in bed, make sure your partner is aware of all that.
The best thing to do is to not be distant or shut your partner out because they deserve answers.
But besides that, you must be polite and empathetic of your partner’s feelings regarding the situation and their reaction, but you also need to make sure your partner gets the message and understands your feelings matter, too.
While continuing to be nothing but honest about your experience with sex dolls, it may be a good idea that you explain how owning a sex doll changed your life for the better.
To do this, you need to summarize a few key bullet points that you are going to bring up in front of your partner and make sure they can easily understand you no matter how upset (if any) they are with the entire situation.
For example, if owning a sex doll helped you improve your performance in bed, or help you overcome social anxiety, or even help you with your endurance, make sure your partner knows that because, technically, they are also the ones who are directly reaping the benefits from you owning a sex doll.
Maybe, if it wasn’t for that sex doll, you wouldn’t last long in bed, or you wouldn’t have had the courage to initiate a conversation with your partner that led to the start of your relationship.
This is why you want to explain what the sex doll means to you and that you cannot easily get rid of her just like that.
But besides that, you also need to make sure your partner knows what they mean to you.
Remember that there is a possibility your partner may feel “inferior” compared to the sex doll that brought so many positive changes into your life, so you need to make sure you don’t contribute to that insecurity on their side.
And lastly, you can also propose that you try involving the sex doll in the bedroom when the time is right if your partner feels comfortable with that.
Maybe they will be curious about the experience and they will be willing to try it at some point when they are mentally prepared for it.
If your partner is okay with you owning and using a sex doll but doesn’t want to be a part of it, make sure to compromise.
This means you should avoid pushing your partner to agree to involve your sex doll in your sex life because this may cause your partner to feel bad and insecure about themselves.
Also, if your partner doesn’t want anything to do with your sex doll, make sure to respect that and not be obvious that you own one.
Try to place your sex doll out of sight while your partner is spending time at your house or make sure to find adequate storage for your sex doll if you and your partner live together.
It would also be good to come up with some ground rules that both of you are going to be comfortable with.
For example, compromise to only use your sex doll when your partner is not at home, or once a week, or once a month, or on your birthday, etc.
You need to work this out between the two of you and come up with the best solution for your situation.
Make sure to take both your feelings into consideration because this is the only way both of you are going to be satisfied with your decision.
And lastly, make sure your partner doesn’t find anything that would instantly remind them that you have a sex doll.
For example, try to store any lingerie, wigs, makeup, perfume, and stuff you use for your sex doll out of your partner’s sight to make things a little more comfortable for them.
Consider that your partner is probably trying to ignore or stay cool with the fact you own a sex doll, so placing stuff like these on their way might trigger unwanted arguments.
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