1. Don't turn off all the lights
Girls are mostly shy, and they will still feel embarrassed even if they are honest with each other many times, so turning off the lights to make love is more comfortable and safe.
But men do the opposite. Compared with physical touch, seeing your reaction under the dim light and seeing you blush and shy because of his touch will make him feel more sensitive and more excited.
Seeing you being distracted by him may even make him have a weak perverted desire to control.
2. Take the initiative
Do men like active girls?
Outside the bed, maybe not.
But in bed, they actually love each other very much.
Sex is an act of conveying love through physical contact, so there should be give and take.
If one party is always passive, it will lose interest, and boys don't want to be the one who moves every time.
Girls can take the initiative, not only let him know how to make you enjoy more, but also give the other party unprecedented stimulation and freshness.
3. Take the initiative to try new positions
Sex is not shameful. Girls should not be ashamed to enjoy this pleasure, but learn to use different positions to make themselves happy.
Sometimes boys actually want to try a variety of different positions, but they are afraid that girls will find it disgusting.
If girls take the initiative to say that trying other positions can arouse the flames in their hearts, they may have a better experience.
4. No reaction is really hurtful
Being cold and dry like a piece of wood and not moving is really hurtful to boys.
If it is because of shyness or other psychological factors, both parties can try to communicate clearly. After all, there will be happiness only when two people interact.
5. Keep a little mystery
Maybe you can try to keep some clothes, such as wearing only underwear, transparent white shirts, mesh shawls, sexy underwear, and even open stockings on the upper body.
Boys only wear a tie, and girls can open it, and they are reluctant to welcome, cover up, and half-covered.
In fact, it is more sexy and charming to not show too much.
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