Whether it’s the kind of diddle you are using or how you are planning on using it, there are certain things that can make it even more fun.
Use plenty of lube
It is always safe to use a lubricant for sex toys, particularly dildos and butt plugs for purposes of safe sex. As nice as it may be if your autonomous zones produce adequate lubrication, applying some of the liquid will make the penetration process much easier and more comfortable—tthere will be no issues with thrusting.
Make sure you’re aroused
Let’s consider arousal as a numerical line in which 1 is having no arousal and 10 is almost ready to climax. You should be about 8 before you start using a diddle. We do not recommend using it too early—before things get really hot—because it can turn into a rather painful experience or it can just be numb and unresponsive.
Finally, maybe you are fully aroused, wet, and ready to give your anal dildo to a workout; initially, do this slowly if you are new to it. It is also good to slide the dildo along or around the outer lips of the vulva or the outer rim of the anus before penetration. After that, it is recommended to proceed to a slow and constant speed and then gradually up the speed.
Choose your own depth
They are to be slid in a vagina; you don’t even need the full length of a dildo. For example, if the penis is 7 inches long, you can decide on how much of it you would like to insert based on your convenience. Upon initial insertion, you may find that you need only half or even less of the product’s insertable length. After a while it feels like this and you may then consider putting in even more. It goes as deep as you decide it should, which means you can change it to suit your decision.
The technique is basic, as in using the dildo but making it into a good experience will need some practice and expertise. Remember patience, follow the tips above and most importantly, have fun!
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